I have a 12 year old son, AC. He is wonderful. Bright. Smart. A great big-brother and kid. He also has mild-moderate hearing loss. This blog will focus primarily on that one part of his life: mild-moderate hearing loss.
Years ago, when I began looking for answers, I was surprised with the run around I felt like I was getting. I really had trouble locating recent, and relevent information on mild-moderate hearing loss. Specifically for a child, and pertaining to education. There seemed to be a lot of info for the deaf community, that used ASL, etc., but, nothing specifically that pertained to my son’s mild-moderate type hearing loss – where he did not know/use ASL.
I remember feeling very alone. I had so many questions and wasn’t finding answers. I didn’t know any other kids or families with mild/moderate hearing loss. I really struggled to find support and information.
Eventually, we found some really great resources, and really great information, and really useful advice from some really wonderful people – and I don’t know how I would have managed if I hadn’t found those. Even with the support I found, there were countless meetings, evaluations, phone calls, emails, and hours and hours of research – trying to gather information and get questions answered.
I started this blog with the hopes that it might:
- serve as a resource to others in similiar situations
- be a support group for myself and others
- provide a means to log things
- … and, possibly contribute in some way – to help break down the stigma and labeling often attached with hearing loss.
As I mentioned in my other post “The kid with the hearing aids”…“:
“So – I don’t care so much anymore if he’s the “kid with the hearing aids”… initially.
As long as others learn that this is not the defining part of his character. Just an intro… just a small part.It’s the ones that don’t know… and don’t want to know.. that really bug me.
Maybe, as SOME people DO get to know him better – and they stop noticing the HA’s and start engaging his whole person – their own “stigma” and “labeling” tendencies will dissipate… ??
And, wouldn’t it be really cool if that branched out even more… ?? and began forcing people to re-evaluate other things they don’t really understand or label with a negative stigma?
Yeah. That would be cool.
My son.
Changing the world for the better…
…one label at a time.
Don’t laugh. It could happen! LOL
I know he changed my world for the better.
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Deb

AC. ME, & KC with DC in front... =)
Hi Deb, thanks for passing by my site and for the inspiring words. I know now how it feels to be so alone, and I value your suggestion about getting myself informed. I just hope that here in our part of the world, I will get the physical resources to successfully go through this journey. I thank God for people like you who share their stories to inspire others like me who is just starting on this road. Will keep in touch. God bless you and your family.
Maia –
Thank you, also, for stopping by – as you can see I’m just getting this blog going. I think you are my first real “commenter”. If I had a gold star and a cookie, I’d give them to you!
Take care,
debcny
Deb, I added your site to http://www.deafmomworld.com.
Deb,
Just found your blog through Growing Up Hard of Hearing in a Hearing World. You have a great site! I have a moderate-to-severe bi-lateral sensorineural hearing loss, am a mother to 2 boys, ages 16 and 20. I am also a certified Special Education teacher of students with mild/moderate disabilities. I am thinking of doing another blog with my hard of hearing experiences. I found many resources for the deaf, for those with cochlear implants, or the aging population, but not much for those who are hard of hearing. Thank you for sharing your journey!
Hi Frieda =) thanks for the comment and visit.
That’s great that you are a Special Education Teacher. I’m sure so many kids can benefit from your personal and professional experience.
Yes – I had trouble finding info for hard of hearing also at first. I’m glad to share the good resources I finally found on here.
Thanks agian,
Deb